Female orgasm is a rather delicate topic, and not every woman is ready to discuss it. Whether it is due to embarrassment, or because in fact she does not know what it is and how it manifests itself in practice.
Men are more easily aroused and get sexual satisfaction faster. Even teenagers know this. It can be difficult to excite a girl, and not every man will be able to bring a girl to a bright orgasm.
The point here is not in the ability to behave in bed, but in the structure of the female body, the features of her psychology. The statement that girls cum with their heads is true if not 100%, then 99% for sure.
How to help your beloved, what to do to make the girl get an orgasm quickly and brightly?
TIPS FOR MEN
Much depends on the intuition, the desire of a man to help his beloved. However, you need to start with the most basic points.
Set the stage
Most men have a spontaneous desire to have sex, and only 15% of women can do the same.
For the rest, the desire is reciprocal — it means that their arousal is subject to a romantic or sexual environment. These girls need foreplay in their head, so put down your smartphone, free up your schedule, and organize the atmosphere before you make a move.
Choose a comfortable position for her
The girl needs to relax completely; nothing should constrain or restrict her movements. It is easy to make her take the most comfortable position – to start foreplay, trying to reach distant parts of her body. Therefore, she will take the position in which she is calm and pleasant.
Focus on the foreplay
The clitoris is often perceived as a small cute bump in in the upper part of the labia minora.
In fact, it is the clitoris – not the vagina – that is the main female sexual organ. The head of the clitoris is equivalent to the head of the penis, and most girls need direct stimulation to orgasm.
This means that you should take a little time away from the vagina and direct the actions of your tongue and fingers to the clitoris.
If more heterosexual couples paid attention to foreplay, 75% of women who do not come from penetration could reach orgasm together with a partner.
Forget about rudeness and force
Many people like it, but not all men know that perseverance should increase with excitement. Spanking, biting are appropriate at the peak of emotions, but not at the beginning of foreplay.
There are more than 8 thousand nerve endings on the head of the clitoris — the same number as on the head of the penis, but due to their small size, their concentration is higher.
It makes the clitoris more sensitive than any organ in the male body — and also means that the line between pleasure and discomfort is very thin. So be gentle.
Not all touches are suitable: if you stimulate the clitoris so persistently, the nerve endings will overload, and they simply stop sending signals to the brain.
In this state of affairs, there is only one way out: take a break. To avoid this situation in the future, try indirect stimulation, different pressure forces, and use a lubricant to minimize friction.
Care and attention
It is important for a girl to feel desired, loved, beautiful, and the most charming. Sincere compliments will help her relax and feel more confident. The main thing is not to lie – it can ruin sex and even further relations of the couple.
Sounds
Moaning, rapid breathing is not always a sign of approaching orgasm – for most girls, this is a manifestation of what they just feel good now. Therefore, you should not speed up your movements or try to get as deep as possible into your partner – you need to understand what caused the partner’s delight, as long as possible to prolong this pleasure. Usually such moments precede a bright climax.
Say obscene things
Communication is the surest way to a great sex life in addition to anatomical savvy.
Talk to your partner about sex, listen and tell her what you want. Studies show that couples who discuss bed affairs are more satisfied with the relationship in general and sex in particular — it is an order of magnitude more for communicating partners.
Coital alignment technique
With the coital alignment technique, you can bring your partner to orgasm during penetration. This is the position with the highest female orgasm rate for vaginal sex alone.
The secret is to stimulate the clitoris with your pubic bone. Your pubes should touch, and your movements should be more like sliding or rubbing, rather than pushing: forward-backward, not in-out. The position requires practice, but it is worth it.
HOW TO UNDERSTAND THAT YOUR EFFORTS ARE NOT IN VAIN?
Simulation is what girls are best at doing. If a man’s sign of pleasure is ejaculation, the ladies do not have such a vivid confirmation, and everyone can scream and breathe heavily. To determine whether a partner has achieved pleasure, you first need to understand what an orgasm is.
The orgasmic peak is the culmination point of gradually increasing excitement, satisfaction, bliss, which is replaced by relaxation, pleasure and light convulsions of the organ where pleasure was achieved:
- Clitoris: orgasm is achieved by stimulating it with your mouth, hands, tongue, and sex toys;
- Vagina: it is believed that there is no vaginal orgasm, waves of overtaking pleasure are caused by indirect or direct stimulation of the same clitoris;
- Uterus: with deep penetration of the penis, the impact of its head on the cervical canal.
Less common is myotonic orgasm, which is achieved by intense compression of the thighs and the muscles of the vagina.
SIGNS OF FEMALE ORGASM
In addition to the breaths, there are vivid manifestations of the pleasure that has come, which do not lend themselves to imitation, serve as confirmation of the female orgasm. This:
- rapid heartbeat, venous pulsation;
- shortness of breath, accompanied by dryness of the oral mucosa;
- redness of the face, neck, and limbs;
- slight increase in body temperature;
- sweating;
- swelling of the nipples, clitoris, labia;
- reduction of the press, uterus, vagina, anus, felt by the sexual organ;
- abundant vaginal lubricant;
- subconscious desire to surrender completely before orgasm and stop the caresses to enjoy the sensations experienced.
Not every girl can have all these signs, but even a few of them will tell the partner that she has reached the orgasm. After the first wave of pleasure, the second comes a little easier – the muscles are already tense.
HOW MANY ORGASMS CAN A GIRL GET IN ONE NIGHT?
In a guy, the process is associated with the sperm production. With each subsequent ejaculation, there is less of it, the reserves are depleted, and it takes time to synthesize it.
The girls have no such problem. Therefore, girls are not limited in numbers; they can experience different types of pleasure: undulating, multiple, repeated. The only condition for their appearance is the degree of arousal. The more active and pleasant the caresses, the more likely that the partner will finish brighter and stronger.