To make your beloved man nice and please him with new sensations, a woman should master Lingam massage techniques. With its help, a man can completely relax and feel desired.

Lingam massage for men is not just an ordinary masturbation, it is a real ritual, during which the woman massages/strokes/rubs/squeezes the penis with her fingers/palms/feet or the whole body.

Lingam massage should be done in such a way as to practically bring a man to orgasm, but not allow him to ejaculate (prevent ejaculation). That is why one “session” can last from 30 minutes to an hour or longer.

LINGAM MASSAGE FOR MEN: HISTORICAL BACKGROUND

“Lingam” from Sanskrit – “rod of light” (that is, a penis). Professional lingam massage is a full-fledged tantric practice that involves not only physical pleasure, but also the exchange of energy/spiritual interaction between a man and a woman.

The woman gently and deeply touches male genitals during the stimulation, doing this with gratitude and worship, thereby awakening in him a “surge” of sexual energy

Lingam massage helps to:

• get pleasure – the partner relaxes and can experience a “wave” of numerous orgasms (by the way, when the final ejaculation does happen, it will be more prolonged and “voluminous” than with normal sexual contact);
• learn to feel and “understand” your body better, create a “map” of the most sensitive erogenous zones;
• control ejaculation;
• manage your erotic desires.

If we consider this practice from a medical point of view, it:

• normalizes of blood circulation in the pelvic organs;
• has a beneficial effect on some muscle groups, which increases immunity and accelerates metabolism;
• stabilizes blood pressure, as well as the hormonal background;
• can prevent clogging of blood vessels in the groin area;
• improves male erection;
• develops the ability to control ejaculation and adjust the duration of sexual contact.

PREPARATION FOR MASSAGE

Before you do a lingam massage, you should:

1. Dim the light – it should be soft, comfortable, relaxing; complement the atmosphere with unobtrusive music.
2. Create an intimate atmosphere, expressed in closed curtains and preventing extraneous sounds from entering the room.
3. Prepare a massage oil (it is better to choose one whose aroma will appeal to both partners).
4. Synchronize the breath (it is very important for the appropriate mood during the session) – both the man and the woman should breathe in time, slowly, steadily, imagining that they are inhaling/exhaling energy flows.
5. Never jump from place to place: warm up the oil in your hands, stroke/massage man’s chest, back, thighs, buttocks, as much as possible “go around” all the erogenous zones – when you start stimulating the penis, it should be in an erect state.
6. Before the lingam massage, massage the perineum, scrotum and all the surrounding areas – only then proceed to the “rod”.

Ejaculation with lingam massage is the final, which should be delayed as long as possible.

By the way, you can also supplement this tantric practice with a very useful prostate massage. To do this:

• get a water-based lubricant;
• apply it on your finger, gently place it in the partner’s anus to a depth of 5 cm;
• find a solid round bulge that resembles a walnut – this will be the prostate gland;
• massage it for a few minutes (or until the man feels uncomfortable).

The duration of the session depends on the mood/desire of the partners and characteristics of the man’s body. The standard time frame is 30 minutes-1,5 hours.

THE MAIN STAGE OF THE MASSAGE

A woman gives a lingam massage to her partner slowly and gently. The algorithm of the main stage consists of a sequence of the following actions:

1. The man lies down on his back on a small pillow. Rollers are placed under the slightly bent knees, slightly apart legs.
2. The masseuse sits between the legs of a man or on the side of him to ensure that her hands can freely touch the male intimate area and make erotic contact.
3. On the warm palms of the partner plentifully applies massage oil or lubricant, lubricates the shaft of the partner’s penis, his scrotum, the anus area.
4. Erotic massage begins with light stroking movements without obvious pressure, rough impact. The masseuse performs especially careful movements with the testicles, so as not to cause painful sensations in them during the massage.
5. The woman gently massages the tissues in the area of the partner’s pubic bone, the upper inner surface of the thighs, the perineum, around the anal opening.
6. The partner performs an erotic massage of the partner’s lingam itself, changing the techniques, amplitude, and intensity of movements.
7. The woman can touch the Innermost Point – the prostate gland – simultaneously with the impact on the penis. It is found in a small depression the size of a pea between the base of the penis and the anus. The second way of massaging is available through the anus. The woman presses on the Innermost Point of the man with longitudinal amplitude movements. The technique allows you to control the onset of ejaculation, pushing it away or bringing it closer.
8. The partner monitors the accumulation of male sexual energy, so the woman should not allow rapid ejaculation in the massaged. At least 6 times a man should have a borderline moment of orgasm before ejaculation.

THE FINAL STAGE OF RELAXATION

The last stage plays an important role in maintaining emotional contact with the partner. A satisfied man feels gratitude, love for a woman. No need to blow out the candles and turn off the music right away. You should make stroking movements on the partner’s body, bypassing the intimate areas below the waist. It is acceptable to lie down next to a man to discuss a joint experience of lingam massage.

POPULAR LINGAM MASSAGE TECHNIQUES

Lingam massage is a complex, protracted process that involves the use/alternation of many techniques. Consider the most famous options for penis stimulation:

Falling leaf

One hand wraps around the shaft of the penis, falls/rises up/down, the second hand (straight) covers the head and performs spiral movements.

Infinite entry

Grasp the penis with one hand, lower it down, immediately intercept the penis in the other hand and repeat the manipulations. Perform several such cycles in a row, varying the strength/speed of the girth.

Rotated spiral

Grasp the base of the penis so that the thumb is pointing down. With spiral movements go up then down (with the same hand), as if “twisting” the penis on the fist.

Nettle

Three fingers of one hand are located under the head of the penis, the other hand is located below, almost at the base of the “rod”. Two hands simultaneously move (one – clockwise, the other – counterclockwise) down the shaft of the penis. When the lowest point (scrotum) is reached, the cycle repeats again.

Raindrops

It is necessary to perform light tapping movements with your fingertips (the speed/force/direction of movement on the lingam can be varied).

Whisk

Grasp the penis with five fingers of one hand (as if you want to pull it up, lift it up), start massaging the head (move your hand up and down, changing the angle/direction of stimulation). The head should not rest against the palm during stimulation.

Butterfly

One hand is placed across the penis BEHIND it, the other IN FRONT of it (the thumbs of both hands are directed up and down, respectively). Move your palms up/down, when you reach the head – turn them 180 degrees (that is, the fingers will be positioned in reverse now).

The choice of positions in which you can do a lingam massage is very diverse: a man is sitting, lying, standing, a woman can hug him from behind, sit on the side, on top, use only her hands or give pleasure to her partner with her whole body.

CONTRAINDICATIONS TO LINGAM MASSAGE

There are some contraindications to lingam massage:

• periods of exacerbation of chronic and acute systemic diseases;
• heart failure;
• bleeding;
• rashes/micro-injuries of the mucosa or skin on the body in general and the genitals in particular.