Tired of “vanilla” sex and want thrills? We will tell you how to diversify sex with the help of techniques from the world of BDSM.
BDSM is a great way to add spice to a sexual relationship. In this form of role-playing, sexual power is exchanged. In fact, it is a violation of social taboos and obtaining pleasure through domination or submission.
BDSM is not just a stupid “sado-maso”; it is a ritual with certain rules:
1. Everything is voluntary. Choose a safe word. It hurt, not ready to go any further – say it and it is all over. No discussion.
2. Everything is safe. Violence should not cross the boundaries of the criminal code. Here, violence must give specific pleasure to both.
BDSM Roleplaying Scenarios: For Beginners
Dominant and submissive are the two main roles in the BDSM game scenario.
The “Top” is the one who dominates and commands. They call him Master or Sir. The “Bottom” (submissive, slave) listens and obeys. It defines the allowed limits and indicates the stop signal before the game starts. A word or gesture stops all the actions of the master.
You can master any role, or change roles with your partner in turn.
The following scenarios are suitable for the first BDSM sessions.
A Surprise Package
The master places a package in front of the bedroom door. There are some items and clothing necessary for the game and a sheet with instructions for the slave. “Bottom” takes the package and prepares for the session. Only then does the slave enter the room where the master is waiting for him/her.
Questioning
The master draws a card from the deck and shows it to the slave, so that he/she does not see it himself/herself. Now the slave has information that is not known to the “top” one. The master punishes the slave and “tortures” him/her to find out the truth.
Photosession
The photographer (master) takes an erotic picture of the model (slave), indicating which positions to take. The model doesn’t have the money to pay the photographer. Then the master forces his slave to have sex with him.
Bandit
A bandit breaks into an apartment where an innocent virgin is engaged in household chores. He undresses her, ties her up, and takes her by force.
Power Exchange
In the beginning, the woman dominates and punishes the man. Then he distracts her with a gentle kiss and takes over. Now he is “top” and can do whatever he wants.
Romantic Dinner
The dominant invites the submissive to the restaurant. Before dinner, he/she sets up prohibitions, for example, not to talk to anyone other than him/her. Then the “bottom” can not even make an order to the waiter on their own. Only with a help of the “top”. The master orders his slave to go to the toilet and take off his/her underwear or use a sex toy. Maintaining calm gives pleasure, because others notice that something is wrong with your couple, but do not understand what.
BDSM Roleplaying Scenarios: An Advanced Level
The following scenarios are suitable for those who is no longer a pioneer in BDSM world.
Affectionate Kitty
The slave must go naked next to the master on all fours, following the command “heel” and “next”. Kitty should be able to give her wonderful voice and invitingly purr, causing desire. Purring sounds erotic. Kitty rubs sweetly against master’s leg and she gets the praise she deserves.
A Bowl of Milk
In continuation of the scenario with the kitty. The master gives the naked slave a bowl of milk and makes him/her to lick on all fours. And then he forces the slave to lick himself/herself, including (if the physical form allows) – to lick his/her genitals.
Stop-Orgasm
This is a very cool technique based on frustration.
The essence of the game: forbid the slave to have an orgasm for some time – 1-7 days, depending on your desire. To complicate it, you need to demand that the slave regularly masturbate in front of you, reach the peak, but he/she could not finish. Or 1-2 times a day there was sex. Which also did not end in orgasm for the slave. Or let the slave masturbate and caress you. He caresses himself/herself. The task is to bring the Master to orgasm, but not to get the discharge yourself.
After a while, the sexual tension of the slave becomes very strong. When the Master finally allows the slave to have an orgasm, he or she experiences extremely intense sensations.
All Senses Deprivation
The task is to strengthen the slave’s tactile sensations. To do this, you need to turn off all other senses – the slave is tied up so that he can not move, blindfolded, earplugs are inserted into the ears.
If the slave cannot move, hear, or see – he/she will feel the touch much stronger, brighter, and sharper. You can leave him/her for a while all alone, then come back, touch him/her with cold and hot objects, caress or slap, then leave. Stimulate the genitals, bring them to the peak, but do not let them finish. Enter the partner, bring him/her to the peak again, and leave it. This very exciting game can last for a very long time.
Sexy Doll
The essence of this game: the slave turns into a living sex doll without the right to speak or move, remaining completely passive. The master moves him/her at his/her own discretion, changes his/her poses and position, dresses or undresses him/her. The submissive is simply in the position that the master will put him/her in. At the same time, the master does whatever he wants with the slave’s body – strokes, slaps, or penetrates.
Rigid Fixing
The slave must be fixed in such a position that he/she is completely immobilized, and the holes available for sex are open. It is possible to make clips on the nipples and then pull them by the chain. The master examines the slave’s organs and holes alternately – with fingers, lips, hands, dildos and vibrators, up to anal or vaginal sex. The slave is forbidden to make sounds or even react in any way to the actions of the master. Sound or activity is punished by flogging.
100% Ready for Sex
This scenario is great for those slaves who like to resist and get punished. You need to choose a period of time, for example, 1 day, when the slave should be ready for sex at all times – regardless of the time and level of arousal. It is the duty of the slave to maintain his/her body to be ready for sex whenever the master requires it (to masturbate, to caress himself/herself).
The master during this period takes the submissive always and everywhere, without warning and without paying attention to the condition. Penetration should be fast or slow, hard or soft, in any hole – in the mouth, anus, vagina. Simultaneously or alternately. Even if the male master wants to enter the mouth and vagina alternately – the slave can not refuse.
Keeping himself/herself clean and well- lubricated is part of the slave’s responsibility. He/she must be ready to have sex with the master constantly, at any time.
Sex in Ordinary Actions
The essence of this game: you need to give a sexual touch to ordinary everyday actions. For example, when the master comes to the pet store, he/she makes the slave measure the collars in front of everyone and buys the one that he/she likes best.
Or the slave goes to the store with a task to buy a sexy set of products – a large cucumber, corn and condoms. Here the excitement is greater in the slave – everyone around understands why this set is bought. These products, along with condoms, should be used for anal or vaginal sex.
Wash Floors Naked
The slave washes the floors naked. Always without a mop. Crawling on all fours and crawling into the farthest corners – under the wardrobe, under the sofa. He/she need to spread legs as wide as possible, stroke his/her holes and protrude them. This is very exciting for the master, who can perform oral, vaginal or anal penetration at any time at will.
Guessing Game with Flogging
The dominant draws letters and numbers on the slave’s naked body with a stick or finger. The slave guesses. If he/she calls the wrong answer – he/she is entitled to a flogging.