A girl who is surrounded by dozens of other men is absolutely not suitable for creating a serious relationship with her. She is cheerful, active, attractive, but nothing more. You can have fun with her, but nothing more. That is why for men who are looking for a serious relationship, a slutty girl is not suitable.
Why Is She Acting Like This?
It is generally believed that the main driving motive of such a woman is sexual desire. However, everything is much deeper. A completely different need is often masked under the sexual desire.
In short, it is all because of a lack of love. An acute, dragging fault, which most likely comes from childhood. There are too few properly loved children, so there are too few happy and self-sufficient adults.
To get love, someone goes down the path of manipulation. Mom or dad in childhood taught deception, bad behavior or demonstrative tantrums to seek their love and attention. Others try to be good, to please, and to serve, in order to earn love. Someone, like a small child, climbs on the knees of at least some adult to get a little warmth and affection. Not only girls, but also many adult women do this and, most often, unconsciously.
First, a woman agrees to a relationship with a man who obviously does not suit her. This is the same hole inside the personality that has appeared due to a lack of love, it is aching and needs to be filled with something. After all, it really lets she go for a while. There is even peace and quiet in the soul. But not for long.
The need for the drug is constantly increasing. The hole turns out to be a universal black hole: it consumes everything around it, and it is never enough. Always the other person gives too little love, too little recognition, too little care, and too little attention.
The relationship ends. The remaining loner begins to rush: to live with a hole in the soul (now open at full power) is extremely unpleasant, even impossible. The first thing a person does is try to find a replacement.
A woman in such a situation clings to the first man who barely lingers next to her. It turns out to be unsuitable again. And there can be no other way: it is not consciousness that leads, but an acute need.
The woman does not think about what is happening – some endless series of acquaintances, snot and revelations, unrestrained (sometimes ugly) sex. She forgets what she ever wanted from life, what she dreamed of, who she is. A woman comes to the throat of all other desires, except for one – to find a new man as a pill for pain and loneliness. She is no longer waiting for the one she once dreamed of, but is looking for ANYONE on the verge of panic.
Signs of a Slutty Girl
She has no complexes
She is not prim, not shy away from new sexual fantasies. Sexually, a man with such a girl is never bored. She is ready to experiment in bed, constantly trying new things.
She is sexy
A slutty girl always tries to look spectacular, even defiant, but not necessarily vulgar. She prefers outfits that emphasize her sexuality and femininity. The manner of moving, standing, or sitting only enhances this effect.
Representatives of the stronger sex agree to make their woman look easier at home. But they always want her to look spectacular and beautiful when she walks down the street with him. They like it when other men pay her envious and admiring glances. A slutty girl knows how to satisfy this male desire and knows how to do it. At the same time, it does not look at the conventions of what others will say about it.
She is not a pretender
A girl of easy virtue behaves as she wants, not trying to comply with the rules of society. Friends may judge her, but secretly, deep down, sometimes envy her. Men like it because they also tend to show a rebellious spirit.
She loves to flirt
Slutty girls know how to flirt, seducing guys, while not making their intentions obvious to them. They can be fun, seductive chatterboxes who can even fight back hard if necessary. This is their game: the appearance of easy accessibility, replaced by resistance at the last moment. This “turns on” many men who want to achieve their goals.
She is in contact with several men at the same time, but claims that there is nothing between them
Should you believe this objection? Everyone is free to believe what he or she want. But it is worth saying that a real friendship between a man and a woman is extremely rare. Sooner or later, one of them falls in love, and the friendship can grow into something more or even a serious relationship.
If a girl has many male friends, then this indicates that she is dependent on male attention. This may be related to childhood education. Most likely, the girl lacked her father’s attention as a child, and now she receives it from men. It is possible that there may be an intimate subtext.
She likes to love
Sometimes it seems that a slutty girl does not care who she love. She is not very picky. She falls in love with the person who first noticed her.
As soon as she meets a new admirer, she will not hesitate to run to him. She might not remember her old boyfriend. And the next boyfriend is waiting for the same fate.
She loves adventures
Wanting adventures, she does not restrain herself. Her “antics” sometimes border on recklessness. A slutty girl is willing to take risks to get the thrill. Life with her is a series of thrills, risks, and challenges.
She likes to have fun
On weekends, in the evening, and sometimes in the middle of the week, a slutty girl is rarely found at home. She loves night parties, dancing, and, of course, attention from men who also came to the nightclub.
She often stays overnight at a friend’s house, not only because it was too late to get home, but because she also had a boyfriend she liked.
She does not expect a fairy tale and a miracle
She creates them for herself. A slutty girl does not expect a prince in her life who will solve her problems. She really looks at the world, fixing what she wants to achieve herself or with the help of the stronger sex.
She knows how to stand up for herself, achieves her goal
She always gets her way, because she is confident in herself. She can stand up for her dreams, while not allowing anything to interfere with their achievement. She is able to achieve her goals without the help of anyone in her life: blackmail, bribery through intimate relationships or violation of the law.
Why Do Men Fall Into the Net of Slutty Girls?
The overwhelming majority of representatives of the stronger sex are drawn to the modest, decent and faithful women with whom they want to connect their lives. Nevertheless, the slutty woman, like a spider, catches a man in an arranged net. Let is look at why it succeeds.
Secret desires
When a man looks at slutty girl, he sees more than just an attractive and alluring woman. A man imagines the satisfaction of his secret sexual desires behind closed doors (something that he will not allow himself with his own wife).
It is enough to put him in a situation that can be fraught with consequences for him. He understands that it is especially necessary to think with his head now, but the desire takes over.
The promise of new sensations
According to men’s opinion, most men are afraid of the monotony of relationships. After all, by nature, the stronger sex are hunters, and all the monotonous work lies with women, who often do not have time for romantic relationships because of the burden of family responsibilities.
Unlike tired wives, a woman of easy virtue promises a man a lot of new adventures and thrills. So he “buys” it, and then as a “heifer goes to the slaughter”. A man understands that he can have problems: family dramas, scenes of jealousy, or even divorce.
A sense of freedom
Slutty girls do what they want, when they want, how they want, without making excuses to anyone about their behavior, especially in terms of intimacy. This behavior is not only deceptively attractive to some men, but often gives them a false sense of complete freedom with her.
This encourages the representatives of the stronger sex to take risks, to go “all-in”, ceasing to look around in pursuit of this feeling.
Endless chases
It may seem childish, but the stronger sex enjoy the thrill of the chase. It reminds them of their youth. A man hopes that with a dissolute woman he will find this feeling with a new force, especially if he suffers from a midlife crisis. He wants to receive what he cannot have at home from his wife.
The wife is easily accessible, and the slutty woman should be sought
A man needs to keep up with the tricks and whims of a girl of easy virtue. The paradox is that such exciting male relationships allow them to feel younger supposedly. At the same time, they do not want their wives to arrange similar “tricks” for them at home. Such things will not even be tolerated from their lifemates.
Hatred toward women
Misogyny is a separate reason why some male elements seek relationships with slutty women. Often such men are seemingly decent quiet husbands, fathers, but secretly hating and wanting to humiliate, beat up the fairer sex. Buying “love”, they believe that they can fulfill their desire.