Sex is a wonderful gift of nature, a person has only to improve and diversify it. Oral sex has been known since ancient times, but there are some types of it that are less popular, but no less interesting. For example, facesitting, which you will learn more about later.

WHAT IS FACESITTING?

Facesitting is a great pleasure for women, which includes elements of cunnilingus and female domination over a partner. Simply put, this word implies the action of the partner, who sits on the face of the partner with a great pleasure. Facesitting belongs to the category of BDSM culture, having some game moments and elements of humiliation for a man.

WHY DO WOMEN NEED IT?

Many female representatives are fans of the facesitting technique. Compared to the usual cunnilingus, you can get the most vivid impressions from it. Even the most experienced partner does not always know how to satisfy his chosen one properly. In this position, the woman herself can adjust the depth of penetration and make him caress the most intimate places.

Sexologists say that the moral side gives an additional zest. A woman gets maximum pleasure from the thought that she is playing a dominant role.

WHY DO MEN NEED IT?

How can a domineering and strong man fall in love with the facesitting method of sex? There may be several options:

• He gets maximum pleasure from the sight of his partner’s labia. In this position, it is located in close proximity to his face.
• He has absolutely free hands – there is an opportunity to examine the body of his second half carefully.
• He likes the fact that his partner can stroke and caress his sexual organ while she is at the peak of pleasure.
• Many men are excited when a domineering woman controls them.
• He satisfies his own ambitions. He is flattered that he can bring his partner to the brightest and strongest orgasm. He feels like a real king in sex.

TYPES OF FACESITTING

There are several types of facesitting: from soft to hard. The preferences of the partner who sits on top are decisive.

Soft facesitting

In the soft version of facesitting, the main weight is taken by the chest of the lower partner. The woman pushes the pelvis forward so that the man raises his head and can reach her vagina with his tongue and lips. The man’s hands are free, so he can support the woman and partially control her pelvis. She can only relax and enjoy the stimulation of the clitoris.

Hard facesitting

Many women are crazy about this facesitting option. The woman puts her feet next to the man’s head, which greatly restricts his mobility. And her vagina literally presses on the partner’s mouth. Here it is important to be careful not to block access to the air. It is better if your legs are bent so that the man’s head does not experience a huge load under the weight of the body. In this position, you can control the rhythm and ensure the satisfaction of his tongue. This kind of domination is very popular with many ladies.

Double pleasure

A woman with bent knees sits on the face of the partner in the opposite direction. In this case, mutual oral sex is possible. The woman bends down, giving the man more access to the genitals. Now she can caress a man’s penis and testicles. The couple gets double pleasure.

Extreme

Both partners are lying on their sides. The woman leans on the shoulder blades; the man is located opposite her. If the height in the pair corresponds to each other, then mutual oral sex is also available in this position.

Drowning

Facesitting is carried out under water.

Binding

In this version, the game connects the binding items: cords, scarf, ribbons, and so on. Only the partner lying below is restricted in movement. He acts as a subordinate, and his task is to please the dominant in every possible way.

Asphyxia

In this form, difficulty breathing plays a key role. But it is not recommended to experiment with this option.

SAFETY FIRST

Facesitting is not such a harmless technique. It is required to follow several rules to avoid unpleasant consequences:

• Start slowly and carefully to test each other’s reactions. Most likely, both of you will like it, and you will completely immerse yourself in facesitting.
• Don’t sit on the whole face, but to hang over it slightly. The partner’s nose should remain free to breathe. Otherwise, role-playing games can end in suffocation.
• If the lower partner is tied with rope, he should be able to signal if a problem occurs. This can be a code word or a hand movement (for example, two slaps on the hips).
• Slaps, bites and blows, suffocating actions must remain controlled, act gently and carefully, so as not to cause injury and unpleasant sensations to the partner.
• Discuss with the man in advance, whether he will like such a game involving violence and facesitting. Not every man can like the fact that his partner suddenly began to beat and chain him, seeking oral sex.
• The blows should be weak and barely noticeable. It is worth remembering this when playing the role of an imperious robber.

If a man has decided on oral sex, especially facesitting, then you should show him what bliss and pleasure it brings you, even if it is not so. After sexual intercourse, create a joyful atmosphere. The partner will feel confident and will do it more often.

Facesitting gives pleasure to both partners, brings them closer, liberates and removes all obstacles.