Cunnilingus Guide: How to Lick and Eat Pussy

Cunnilingus is undeservedly considered one of the most difficult sexual actions. Apparently, this stereotype follows from another – about “complexity” and “mystery” of female genitals. The following tips will refute this absurd opinion.

 

 

LET YOUR PARTNER RELAX

Many women feel discomfort during cunnilingus. For some, it’s associated with complexes about their own smell and taste or with confidence in “ugliness” of their genitals. Others worry that a man doesn’t like doing it. Still others don’t like being the center of attention and can’t relax. As a rule, a woman is hypercritical about her body, so your eyes, nose and mouth in the most sensitive and vulnerable part of her body cause a slight resistance.

Of course, you can’t change your partner’s self-perception all at once. But you can help her relax. In many ways, success will depend on your perception of oral sex.

So let the woman know that you take the process seriously, that it’s not foreplay to the “main part” for you, and that it really turns you on.

However, you need to remember:

  • During cunnilingus you forget about yourself: now your pleasure depends on her pleasure.
  • Take your time: she deserves all the time in the world. And you want to enjoy every moment.
  • Her smell is exciting, her taste is amazing. And both of them are part of a beautiful nature.

If you can show your partner that it’s important to you, you’ll be among the few super lovers.

 

PREPARE YOUR PARTNER AND YOURSELF FOR LONG-TERM PLEASURE

Foreplay before cunnilingus is another way to relax and excite a girl. Plus, it’s just necessary: the clitoris is too sensitive; taking it roughly isn’t the best solution. So spend your time kissing, hugging, touching, and telling your fantasies. And when a girl is sufficiently aroused, move to her genitals. But even there, don’t rush: start with gentle movements of the tongue up and down.

Make sure that your body is in a comfortable extended position. Try to position your lips and tongue at 45-degree angle, not 90 – it’ll make it easier for you. To do this, bump your gums into your partner’s body, and your head on her leg. Her feet must be close enough to each other.

If you don’t like to do cunnilingus lying down, you can get down on your knees by the bed. But no matter what method you choose, make sure that you’re comfortable and ready to perform all actions without haste.

Note: Even after this preparation, your partner will reach orgasm in 20 minutes on average. So take care of your comfort.

 

 

MASTER THE BASIC TECHNIQUE OF CUNNILINGUS

Another important rule: it’s better to be gentle and methodical during cunnilingus, rather than rude and unpredictable. It means that you need to find a way that your partner likes and stick to it.

Basic technique:

  • After preparation, focus on licking the clitoral hood (a fold of skin that surrounds and protects the glans of the clitoris). From time to time, caress the clitoris itself with your tongue and index finger.
  • With increasing arousal, penetrate the vagina: first with your tongue, then with one or two fingers. But don’t make back-and-forth movements. It’s better to press your fingers against the front part of the vagina where the G-spot should be, and continue to stimulate the clitoris with your tongue.
  • Caress your partner’s boobs, belly, and other erogenous zones with your free hand.

You can use this technique as a starting point. However, don’t forget that every girl has her own preferences. Some people like simultaneous oral and manual stimulation, while others don’t. Some reach orgasm faster when the clitoris is licked, others – when it’s sucked. Watch the girl to understand what brings her more pleasure. And even better, ask her directly: she probably knows.

 

 

PREPARE FOR AN ORGASM

When your partner is approaching the final, you need to position her legs more tightly to increase the stimulation.

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However, the more important thing that you should learn: don’t change the rhythm and method of stimulation itself (unless the partner asks otherwise).

 

IT’S IMPORTANT TO LICK HER PUSSY

All men treat cunnilingus differently. Someone likes to do it, someone not like, and others completely refuse to eat his girlfriend’s pussy. In other respects, this situation is quite similar to blowjob and the attitude of girls to it. But regardless of whether you like to do it or not, you must clearly understand what cunnilingus means to a girl. Because only then you will be able to realize what you’re giving her or what you’re depriving her of. So cunnilingus for a girl is:

  • It’s the most gentle and pleasant caress for a girl. Language is just the perfect tool for caresses. It’s moist, flexible, can be both soft and hard. Whatever you do to it on any part of the body it will be more or less pleasant. And if you apply it to the main erogenous zones of a girl’s body, it’ll be the palace of pleasure. Nothing can compare to the tongue and its caresses.
  • It’s a trigger for female arousal. Most girls get aroused a little slower than guys. Because of this, in fact, there’s a problem when a guy has already finished, and a girl is just normally excited and wants to continue. As a result, she remains unsatisfied. Therefore, in order to compensate for this difference in the rate of arousal, a girl needs high-quality foreplay, which can be cunnilingus.
  • It’s a stimulator of feelings of avery high regard or love for yourself. When a girl receives such caresses, she feels special, not like everyone else, because such caresses aren’t given to everyone in a row.

 

 

MISTAKES DURING CUNNILINGUS

We will talk about the most common mistakes of men. It’s very important to know and understand them, because no matter how skillfully you’ll do everything, if these mistakes are made, all your efforts will be in vain and don’t achieve the desired results. It’s worth noting that by eliminating only these mistakes, you’ll already significantly increase your chances of success in this delicate affair.

  • Bristle – It can easily injure the delicate skin of the female genitals.
  • Dry tongue – The top of the tongue, also called the dorsum, is covered with  The head of the clitoris is very sensitive and it can easily feel them if they’re not sufficiently moistened with saliva.
  • Tense tongue – Clitoral stimulation with a tense tongue can cause pain.
  • Haste – A girl needs to be prepared for everything and the longer you torment her, the more excited she becomes, the more pleasure she will get from your first touch.
  • Clitoris isn’t a penis – You don’t need to caress, pull, suck the clitoris intensively and do all the things that you would like if it was done with your penis.
  • Lick only the clitoris – Other areas adjacent to the clitoris are also need to be caressed and they also contribute to the girl’s arousal.
  • Change of speed and movements at the finish line – It can blow your girl’s buzz.

For most women stable caresses are the main key to orgasm. Therefore, if you find the same method, don’t change it. Otherwise, you risk upsetting your loved one.

One last tip: remember that clitoris is very sensitive after orgasm. Give your partner a rest after cunnilingus before moving on to new activities. In addition, of course, don’t forget to tell her how much you enjoyed it and congratulate yourself on a job well done!

 

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