It’s a strange phrase, isn’t it? It seems to be sex, but on some kind of phone, how is it?
This is a kind of so-called virtual sex, during which two people talk on the phone and say all sorts of naughty things to each other. Often one or both of them are engaged in self-satisfaction at this moment.
Sex, on the phone or without it, will always play a significant role in the relationship. The phone in this situation is simply a tool for the diversity of this process. Sometimes there’s a situation when a significant other is far away, and it’s not possible to have ordinary sex, then the phone comes to the rescue.
PHONE SEX RULES
Start with an innocent flirtation
Think ahead (approximately) what you’re going to say to avoid awkward pauses. To be sure, you can even rehearse your “speech”. Just don’t stick to the plan too strictly. Your script should be free, so that your partner can “finish” it or change his role as he wants.
Try to tune yourself to the right wave and convey your mood to your partner. To do this, a few hours (minutes) before the planned communication, you can send your loved one SMS with words of tenderness or juicy details of your feelings. If you don’t have any ideas, you can start by saying: “I can’t wait to hear your voice today”. For fans of thrills, another option is more suitable: “Your voice really turns me on! Call me back!”
Check your partner’s readiness
A “hot” relationship over the phone is a matter of trust. For everything to work out “as it should”, you need to know for sure that your partner is ready for a new experience and wants to relax with you. It’s not necessary to arrange a sensual striptease, if there’s no exact confidence that the loved one is ready to respond. After all, if there’s no mood, the body won’t respond even to the most sophisticated calls. Love is good, but the process requires mutual involvement – here and now.
Create an appropriate atmosphere
Before you indulge in passion, check whether you’re exactly alone, dim the lights, turn off unnecessary gadgets and make sure that the connection is stable.
If you’ll use a script, create the appropriate entourage! Wear luxurious underwear, use decorative items, candles, scents — everything that will help you relax and be transported to the world of sensual fantasies. Nothing should interfere with the act of love!
Speak sensually and emotionally
Nothing is more relaxing than the pleasant tone of your partner’s voice. Speak gently, a little raspy, imagine yourself a tempter or a seductress. At the same time, you need to talk clearly, so that your partner understands and accepts every word you say. It’s not forbidden to use foul language, but it’s better to use it in moderation. However, passionate sounds are very welcome, and the more – the better!
Forget about complexes — ask questions
Don’t let the complexes and internal clamps spoil your fun. Ask what your partner is wearing; say that you dream of taking off his clothes from the first minute of your acquaintance; ask if your partner misses your caresses. Tell him how much you want to smell him and touch his body!
Don’t forget the details
To give you a sense of the reality of what is happening, remember what only you two know — ask him to “kiss” your mole on your neck or remove an unruly curl of hair on your temple… Most men are visual artists. The more you describe to a man what you do and feel, the easier it’ll be for him to imagine it.
Respond to your partner’s caresses
Never use monosyllabic responses in virtual intimacy. Turn off your “internal critic”, say whatever comes to your mind! If it seems that you have nothing to say, translate your partner’s words to yourself: “I can feel you caressing my skin, feel the tenderness and love of your lips. I want you to do this…”
Send “spicy” surprises
They say that men love with their eyes, but they forget that women do too. If you’re confident in the reliability of your partner, send him a couple of “hot” surprises on the phone! The photos are incredibly exciting.
But remember: the best “works” isn’t a completely naked body, but something that awakens his imagination! Leave “room for maneuvers” — take pictures in seductive underwear, cover your body with a translucent fabric, or use the night shooting mode. Too much light can ruin a good act of love.
Remember your most amazing act of love
When describing your feelings, rely on your memories. Say: “Do you remember when we were in Egypt, in a luxury hotel room with a huge bed? Do you remember what I did… And if I did, what would you say? …” Or “Do you remember when we swam in the night sea? If there were no tourists around, what would happen? I would have done it…”
It’s not only your fantasy, but your shared memories, which means that it’ll be easier for you to transfer to this situation in your imagination.
Flirt and tease your partner, offer the most “hot” scenarios, show wonders of ingenuity! Intimacy on the phone is good because no one will force you to repeat everything you said in reality. For an amazing pastime, you only need imagination!
Reproduce the act of intimacy in an unfamiliar place
If you have dreamed of being close in nature, in a library, in a car, live on a famous TV show, or in the central square of your city, why not? The phone will “tolerate” everything! Long-distance relationships are a great reason to “fulfill” your most cherished dream, while not exposing yourself and not thinking about the consequences!
Play the most incredible scenarios – imagine yourself in the captivity of the enemy, invite your partner to a wild party! Put aside the complexes — love has no boundaries!
Movies will help you
You can’t tune in to the right wave, or you don’t have the imagination to come up with a sexy story? Try watching an erotic movie together (you’re in your room, he’s in his room, or watch it yourself and tell him what you see), or read aloud to him a couple of chapters of a love novel.
Keep a backup option in mind
If you feel that nothing is working and you are too shy, try to remove the awkwardness. To do this, offer a role-playing game: “I’m a robot; I’ll fulfill your every wish. What do you want most right now? Program me!” Down with the complexes, the real game begins!
Finally say the words of love
As during the classic act of love, after mutual pleasure, you need to put an end to it. To do this, tell your partner how pleasant and good it was for you, what you liked, and when you would like to repeat it. Ask what your partner feels and what has attracted him the most.
Such conversations help partners to get closer and not feel so acutely the temporary absence of a loved one next to them. As long as there is passion and imagination, the act of love can be organized even by phone…