If all sexual positions started a competition, the position 69 a priori would have a head start – double oral sex! This circumstance, if we approach it purely logically, could leave far behind everything that humanity has accumulated in the field of sex.
The name of position came from the Kama Sutra, where this position for oral sex is listed under number 69. The lovers are turned to each other in such a way that his face rests on the clitoris, and hers on the penis. This arrangement resembles the number 69.
In addition, in the combination of the numbers 6 and 9, the magic of the male and female principles is laid (similar to the symbol “yin-yang”). A man and a woman flow together, their energies intertwine, creating a common aura that can have a beneficial effect on intimate life.
Position 69 has several variations: Classic, Inverted, Sideways, Kneeling, Sitting, Golden Gate, YCMA, Face Off and Standing. It is about the latter that we’ll talk in more detail.
The Standing 69
This position is for young and active couples who are physically prepared and experienced in terms of sex. It requires physical exertion, but that may be its beauty.
The man starts with the position Kneeling 69, and then stands up to his full height. The position feels similar to Kneeling 69, however, the woman here feels even more helpless, and the man, on the contrary, feels like the master of the situation.
It is a more direct form of the Kneeling 69 position, it’s equally difficult for the partners to hold on, he holds her on the weight in front of him. She, being upside down for convenience, can lean her knees on his shoulders or, if desired, stretch out to her full height.
It is not always possible to achieve orgasm in this position; however, it will be a very exciting memory for both. More lightweight for a man and at the same time more aggressive and passionate is the option when a man presses a woman with her back against the wall in this position.
Advantages of the Standing 69
The positive aspects of simultaneous oral pleasures are still more than the negative ones.
A different view of the partner
You are completely at the mercy of your partner, trusting him, relaxing and having fun. This position can become a new round of intimate relationships, when the couple is so harmonious that it flows into one whole, forgetting about the constraint and stiffness. A man can show his physical strength by holding his partner, and a woman, in turn, will demonstrate flexibility and the ability to treat the penis delicately.
Mutual affection
There are no losers here: both enjoy themselves, both bask in the embrace, both make the other feel good. Only petting or mutual masturbation can compare with “cross love”, but none of the types of caresses without penetration can compare with it. A counter storm of emotions is guaranteed and natural.
Better access to intimate places
If you practice this position, then the intimate places are close at hand, or rather it remains only to pull out the tongue and you will already be on the right track. A woman opens up a picturesque view of the scrotum and penis, she can use them as she like: lightly suck, slide up and down, rub her nose, she can even bite (to the extent feasible). In man, everything is even easier, his weapon is the mouth and tongue: lick his partner, consider how beautiful her vulva is, kiss the inner part of the thigh. Don’t neglect the labia, leave the clitoris for later to better excite and brighten up the moment of orgasm.
No pressure from the partner
No one will bother you with conversations, distracting you from sex; because you are equally busy pleasing each other.
Disadvantages of the Standing 69
There are some negative aspects of simultaneous oral pleasures.
Risk of injury
In principle, any position can be considered traumatic; here sex can be compared with sports. The risk of injury in the Standing 69 position is not great, only if you do not experiment with the technique, being not physically ready for the experiment. There is also a danger of accidentally brushing your teeth against the foreskin or the head of the penis (with a blowjob) or clenching your teeth too hard on the clitoris (with cunnilingus). However, it does not happen often and if it happens, it is not able to injure seriously, it will only cause temporary inconvenience.
Lack of simultaneous orgasm
Most often, the man does not wait for the woman to finish and ends up first, leaving her without an orgasm. Much less often, women do not wait for their chosen one. Synchronicity is not easy to achieve, but if it does happen, the experience is unforgettable. Start doing cunnilingus a little earlier than she starts a blowjob, or stay longer on preliminary caresses, focus on your partner, become a team. Do not hesitate to talk about your feelings, so a simultaneous orgasm will become a frequent guest in your bed.
Difficulty focusing
The most difficult thing at the peak of excitement is not to forget about the partner and continue to give him/her pleasure. Thoughts about your partner may not allow you to get a high-quality orgasm, and you will not be able to show your skills in all their glory. It is important to find a middle ground, balancing on the edge of ecstasy, while at the same time continuing to engage with a partner.
How to Hint to Your Partner about the Standing 69
The easiest way to hint is to have a direct heart-to-heart conversation. Find out over a cup of tea whether this position is suitable for your couple, whether it is so necessary for you. If the dilemma is serious, write down the pros and cons on a piece of paper, then look at what is more and decide whether to be or not to be.
If it is easier for you to hint, prepare in advance. A woman can put on beautiful underwear, beautiful stockings or nylon tights on a naked body. Her task is to seduce her partner and instead of the standard missionary pose ask him to lie down in the jack position. And voila! It is unlikely that a sane man will refuse such an erotic pressure.
The man’s hint may be more difficult to give, you need to act carefully. At home, prepare candles, rose petals, pick up pleasant music or just organize a romantic dinner. When it comes to passionate kisses, gently whisper in her ear about your desire, and say: “Let’s try 69?”. If everything is done correctly, then your soulmate will melt at the point with dinner and agree to any offer, even the most adventurous.
Much has been said about relaxation, acceptance and emancipation – these are the main components of position 69. Oral sex should not be ignored, it can become an alternative and replace traditional sex, if for some reason it is impossible. The Standing 69 position is definitely not suitable for the lazy and selfish, it is aimed at exchanging energy, and at simultaneously obtaining pleasure.