You can give pleasure not only in the traditional way. Fingering is the case when the phrase “Hands off!” is not relevant. Hand movements will give you incomparable pleasure. But you need to learn how to do fingerings correctly, so that the sex ends with an orgasm, and not damage to the mucous membranes.
For many, fingering is represented as the penetration of fingers into the vagina. However, you can use your hands as a sex guide on any intimate areas, for example, in the anus.
Anal fingering can give pleasure to both partners and a huge bouquet of completely new sensations during foreplay or sex, because a lot of nerve endings are stimulated, concentrated near the anal opening. The main advantage of anal finger stimulation is that this type of masturbation can be done even without having anal sex.
Anal fingering is for brave people who are not tied to banal prejudices and are always ready to experiment.
WHAT MAKES ANAL FINGERING AND OTHER ANAL GAMES SO ATTRACTIVE TO WOMEN?
Anal fingering stimulates the woman mentally and emotionally. It is a huge causative agent for most women, since everything related to anal games falls under the concept of “taboo” or “ban”. The role of taboos and forbidden actions in the female psyche is extremely underestimated, since women treat sex differently than men.
Once you can awaken the depraved side of the woman, there will be no turning back. And anal fingering is one of the best ways to get your partner to explore their deep and hidden desires.
Warning: you will find that as soon as you introduce anal play into your sex life, the woman will start expecting it to become the main topic of your bedroom life. Anal fingering can cause a partner to be quite addictive, because it gives an unusually pleasant feeling.
PREPARATION
There are a few special rules to keep in mind when doing anal fingering for the first time.
Hand hygiene
Unlike the tongue, the fingers are rougher, so before anal fingering they must be thoroughly washed with antibacterial soap, and then softened with a nourishing hand cream. It is also recommended to make sure that the nails are trimmed and the hangnails are removed.
Protection
It is advisable to protect yourself during fingering from scratches, injuries, the development of infections and the exchange of possible diseases. For protection, the following methods are used:
- Rubber or latex gloves are comfortable because they fit the hand tightly and will not slip off at the most inopportune moment. A large amount of lubricant must be applied to them before fingering. But gloves reduce sensitivity, do not deliver such powerful emotions as bare fingers.
- The condom is much thinner than latex gloves, slightly reduces the sensitivity, will allow you to use less lubricant. The disadvantage is that it will slip off during the intimate process.
Mandatory use of lubricant
If suddenly there was no lubricant, then you can use olive oil. It is better to choose water-based lubricants with a natural composition, without the addition of dyes. And flavored lubricants will add more pleasant sensations. But, in no case, do not buy a lubricant with a cooling effect for anal stimulation and sex!
Choose a lubricant better together. It will be a great start to the erotic game and will give a special feeling of anticipation of non-standard sex.
Comfortable position
Anal fingering can be done in almost any position, but perhaps the most comfortable position is lying on your back or on all fours.
A bottle of warm water and wet wipes
It is advised to prepare a bottle of warm water and wet wipes in case something goes wrong as planned. Therefore, in order to avoid various embarrassments, it is recommended to first clean your intestines. It also doesn’t hurt to take a warm and relaxing bath or shower.
ANAL FINGERING TECHNIQUES
Woodcutter
This technique is more like a warm-up, since you are not yet inserting your fingers into the anus, but, nevertheless, you allow the partner to get used to some sensations around the anus. After you’ve applied some lube to your hands and to the partner’s buttocks, just put your palms together as if you’re praying and rub them between your partner’s buttocks in a motion like you’re sawing something.
Be sure to start slowly and gently, and then, when the partner feels more comfortable, you can increase the speed and pressure that you exert. You can also vary the pressure to tease your partner. This technique will allow the partner to get used to the sensations in this area and will warm up well for the next more complex techniques.
Thumbs game
This technique is actually very simple. You need to clench both hands into fists between your partner’s buttocks and push them apart with your knuckles. Now your thumbs should be right above the anus. Slowly move them in a circular motion, trying to rub the outside of the anus gently.
Don’t forget to use a decent amount of lube. Of course, you can increase the speed and intensity as you progress, as your partner feels more comfortable.
First run
At this stage, your partner should be ready for the next level. Lubricate your finger very well (we recommend starting with the little finger, but if you want to surprise your partner a little, you can use the middle or index finger) and slowly insert it into the anus.
There is no need to insert it completely, just slowly move inside and stop at the points where the partner tells you, or when you feel that this is necessary so that the partner can get used to the new sensations.
Once the partner gets used to the finger inside, you can slowly start the usual finger movement – in and out. If at any stage you feel that there is a little dry, then always add more lubricant.
Bend your finger
As soon as your partner feels comfortable with your finger in the anus, you can try to bend it slightly towards the vagina. Depending on the location, you will have to either bend your finger towards you or away from you. It should be easy.
Bending your finger, you almost rest against the wall of the rectum. This can be very pleasant, since in fact the vagina is separated from the anus only by a thin wall, which means that the woman will be able to feel some sensations there.
The partner will get a unique stimulation that she probably has never experienced before, if she has not tried anal fingering before. The more you bend and move your finger, the more you will hear her moans and even cries of pleasure.
As a result, your partner can even experience an anal orgasm. This is because the same nerve endings that lead to vaginal orgasm are stimulated. However, not all women can experience anal orgasm.
Stimulate the perineum
What is the perineum? It is the area between the vagina and anus in women or between the scrotum and anus in men.
This ultra-sensitive place should be gently massaged while you are doing anal fingering to your partner.
You can massage the perineum in the same way as you did with the anus, using your thumbs in a circular motion. The combination of anal stimulation and perineal stimulation is so enjoyable that it really can’t adequately describe how cool it is.
Doubling up
This can be a bit difficult due to the physical limitations. Simply put, you will try to insert two fingers into the anus. It will take a lot of patience and lubrication. Lots of lube.
Just like when you first tried to insert your first finger there, the partner will be quite cramped and uncomfortable. So be patient and don’t get upset if it takes too long or if it gets to the point where your partner is too uncomfortable to continue. You can always try it next time.
In any case, when you finally managed to enter two fingers, be very careful. Slowly move them in and out and pay attention to your partner’s reaction. Then you can try to bend them to stimulate the walls of the rectum. For some, this may be too painful, and in this case, one finger will probably be enough.
However, most people think that one or two fingers is already good for stimulation and pleasure (the technique is important here, not the number of fingers).
Add your tongue
The bottom line is that during the anus stimulation, you begin to do cunnilingus. Try licking, sucking, kissing, etc. The combination of tongue and finger in two different holes will probably stimulate in the most amazing way that will be remembered for a long time. Later, if you are really ready for an adventure, you can try to lick your partner’s anus.
During the anus stimulation, it is advisable to monitor the reaction of the partner to everything that happens, listen to his/her wishes and in no case ignore his/her refusal to do anything.
It is not recommended to engage in anal sex or fingerings too often, as in the future this is fraught with fecal incontinence. It is also not recommended to engage in anal stimulation for people suffering from diseases, inflammation of the anus and intestines.
Bringing an idea to sex, and then a sample of anal fingering, can be a great way to improve your relationship. Taboo topics of anal game, as well as how great it feels, is a great thing to add to your bedroom repertoire. Once you start incorporating anal sex and other types of anal game into your sex life, there will be no turning back.