Some people find anal sex annoying, while others find it the best way to satisfy themselves. Well, still others have never tried this type of intimacy, and treat it with curiosity. Anyway, anal sex has been around since Ancient Greece. The cradle of human civilization was famous for the fact that homosexuality flourished on its territory — which, of course, is based on anal sex.
This kind of intimacy can be very pleasant for both women and men. And if you do it correctly, it will definitely bring an unforgettable experience.
In this article, we will talk about the secrets of anal sex from real professionals in this business — porn stars.
IMPORTANT SEXOLOGIST’S WARNINGS
But first, you should heed the views of scientists. “Anal intimacy is something that you and your partner should discuss and plan carefully. And being of sound mind and under no duress, and not in bed after two bottles of alcohol,” – emphasizes the expert on sex and relationships from America, Ann Hodder.
“Lube is especially necessary for anal sex. The anus is much denser than the vagina. There’s no natural lubricant in it, regardless of your level of arousal. Many people prefer silicone-based lubricants. However, a water-based lubricant is also quite suitable for anal sex. As a rule, it usually uses longer. The main thing when choosing a gel-lubricant is to make sure that it’s combined with a condom and won’t cause damage to it,” – emphasizes Ann.
PREPARATION IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING
Porn star Riley Reyes believes that hygiene should be the most important aspect for anyone who decides to have anal sex. “Just wiping the brown-hole with toilet paper isn’t the way to ensure cleanliness and hygiene. The best way to prepare for anal sex isn’t just to wash, but also to use an enema.
Make a chamomile herbal infusion or any other soft antiseptic solution. Let the liquid to cool to a temperature of 34-35° C. Fill the enema with a fluid. Carefully insert the tip of the enema into the rectum, and after 15-20 seconds, release the liquid. Repeat this until the water is clear. You’ll feel much more confident if your butt is clean.”
SLOW PACE AND RELAXATION
Riley emphasizes the importance of relaxation, especially when the first time anal sex is practiced. “Don’t dwell on the ultimate goal of intimacy. During anal intercourse, focus on the process itself, not the final stage of it. A few days before sex, I recommend a little exploration of your own anus with your fingers or with the help of sex toys. Again, don’t forget about the hygiene rules.”
Full relaxation is also important in anal sex. Porn star Brooklyn Chase thinks so. “If you can’t relax properly, try to turn your attention to the sexual act anyway. Girls can additionally stimulate the clitoris with a vibrator. It’ll allow you to get excited and gradually relax your muscles. Guys can further stimulate the penis.”
ANAL SEX POSITIONS
Chase makes a few more recommendations. “During intimacy, it’s important to maintain contact with your partner, and use as much lube as possible. The first stage of anal sex is the sphincter muscle relaxation. As soon as it’s passed, it’s possible to carry out penetration. I find it much easier to relax in such anal sex positions as Cowgirl and Spoons.
I once thought that Doggy Style position is the only way to have anal sex. However, it’s far from the case. In the Spoon position, both partners can relax more. In the Cowgirl position, the woman gets more control over the process. In any case, don’t forget about a sufficient amount of lube.”
NAPKINS ARE WITHIN REACH
Admit that the anus isn’t the cleanest part of the human body. That’s why it’s important to stock up on enough napkins in advance. Here’s what porn star Lance Hart recommends: “If your anus isn’t particularly clean, don’t panic. Even during professional filming of porn scenes of anal sex, you always have to pause – just to wipe yourself.
Keep the napkins close to the bed, next to the lube. And you won’t have to feel embarrassed or fuss at the crucial moment. In extreme cases, you can interrupt the anal sexual act for a while by going to the shower together.”
DON’T LOOK UP TO PORN STARS
Riley Reyes encourages those people who would like to have anal sex without dwelling on their own shortcomings. “Yes, on the Internet you can find a lot of hot videos on the topic of anal sex. But keep in mind that when we make these videos, we have to show a lot more of what is happening in reality. I mean to show that really large objects can enter the anus.”
At the end of her interview, Riley emphasizes: “Anal sex preparations is a time-consuming process. It’s a long and often unpleasant process: you have to do a lot of enemas, significantly limit yourself in food before shooting porn, take medications for diarrhea. In real life, all this is unnecessary, so don’t be afraid of spontaneity and don’t compare yourself with the actors of porn videos. Just have fun and take pleasure — that’s the main task!”
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